I want you to know that I once was a totally different person than I am today. Maybe that's hard for you to imagine but it's true!

I was a stay at home Mum, newly separated, emotionally and financially co-dependent on my then husband, realising that I had to return back to the paid workforce to support myself, knowing that everything solid and certain that was in my life now was about to change and not knowing how life was going to look for me.

I'd never had to fully support myself financially (and do it successfully). I’d never had a bill solely in my own name. I’d never lived on my own. I was low in confidence, low in self-belief, I'd forgotten how it felt to be treated like a woman who was loved and valued.

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I had not been single for nearly two decades!

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I veer'ed between feeling confident and excited about my new life in one breath to having overwhelming moments of self-doubt in the next.

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And then there was dating…! I’d been with the same man since I was twenty one. And here I was at thirty four ~ not even sure who I was as a woman now and entering the online dating world. Twelve years with the one person. Twelve years that had left me feeling down on myself, not good enough, hesitant to trust and open myself up to someone again…it made me feel incredibly unsure about putting myself back out there. 

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All I knew was that I had a burning desire to attract in something much different for my future than I'd lived with in my past

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And I knew I had to be a different kind of woman than the woman I used to be for that to show up for me in life. I knew I needed to change from the inside out. But I wasn't sure how.

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I did what many women do after getting a divorce!

I updated my wardrobe and I put myself on a health kick. After having two young children, I have to say that working out and eating beautifully  was necessary and it was amazing! Physically I did transform.

But what I continued to attract into my life changed only to a certain degree because I was still the same girl, believing the same things about herself and fearing the same things. Similar shades of the same kind of person in my life love kept showing up, the same dynamics in my career, the same outcomes financially.

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And so I started the process of doing the real work on myself to truly understand why this was happening. To begin the process of healing and clearing my pattens and blocks for good.

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Over the last five years I have up-levelled in all areas of my life.

Financially.

The men I attract.

My friendship circle.

My lifestyle.

In my career.

Most importantly, in myself.

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It has been the most profound personal journey of undoing and growing to become who I am today, with the life that I have, as a 41 year old woman.