Life After A Marriage Ends Coaching
A highly personalised three month coaching container for the feminine who is either moving through the awakening and grief of a marriage coming to it's an end OR for the feminine who is walking the healing and moving on path after a marriage has ended - she is stepping into a new version of herself as a woman, relearning what love is and healing her past wounds, traumas and fears.
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This container is designed to support a woman into an empowered, confident and feminine space no matter of the circumstances around her. She is on her path and she is shining and thriving from the inside out.
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Should you work with me if you are still married but know your marriage is over? Yes. The sooner a woman comes to me the better if she is stuck and cycling in her situation.
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Should you work with me if you are still navigating a separation and haven't fully resolved all your finances/housing? Yes. If you feel called to the earlier you reach out to work with me the better. I have a higher chance of achieving an amicable and financially fair separation/divorce and journey forward for you the sooner you come to me because your emotional healing, self-empowerment and growth is key to your situation.
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Who Is This Coaching Container Suitable For?
This 3 month coaching container is for the woman:
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Whose long-term relationship or marriage has ended and she is wondering "what do I do next?" and "who am I now?" Women who feel lost, hurt and wounded, abandoned, too old to find love again, lack self-trust, who are fearful of being hurt in love again and who are low on self-belief and confidence.
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If you are being financially or emotionally gas lit, manipulated or abused during your separation or during the divorce process by your ex.
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Women who feel a sense of inner turmoil and conflict because they know they have outgrown their partner, but feel guilt and shame at wanting to leave. Or are being pressured to stay by their partner.
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You feel frustrated and are tired of attracting the same types and shades of relationships since leaving your marriage. Typically you are attracting emotionally unavailable types, narcissists, players, liars or nothing at all.
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Maybe you need to rediscover who you are now as a single woman at this point in your life because you haven't been without a man guiding you and making the big life decisions before. This feels overwhelming, scary.
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She's looking to reclaim her identity, sense of self and confidence again after nurturing everyone else first before herself.
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Who has reached a time in her life where she needs to make her own health + happiness a priority again so she can enter this next season of her life feeling the brightest and most fully self-expressed version of herself. No more needing a man to validate you or dimming your light.
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Who has an ex-partner who is controlling, toxic, highly manipulative and he continues to trigger you and pull you down with the way he behaves and treats you. *Hint he won't change you need to.
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This container is suitable for you if:
- You are still married and know you want leave your marriage
- If you have separated recently or
- You have been separated for several years but are still carrying the wounding, disappointment and it is manifesting in your life today as not being able to find true lasting love in your life OR success and security financially or fully in yourself.
Samantha
I first started following Carla on Instagram 2 years ago and then read her 2 books as l knew my marriage was over - l wasn’t happy and wanted to live my life and be truly happy. Carla’s books really resonated with me.
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I then decided to do her online Rising Beyond Separation & Divorce program. I really did get alot out of this. It pushed me to think about so many things as l went through my divorce. Once settled in my own place l decided to invest in myself again and do the The Art of Rediscovering You on line program. This also had monthly zoom calls with Carla for 6 months.
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This is when everything really started to change for me. The woman Carla met when we first started coaching together to when we finished were two different people. I really did the work to rewire my thinking and become the best new version of myself.
I know without Carla’s support, her looking at things differently to me, her expertise and knowledge and advice, l wouldn’t have been able to achieve this. Investing in myself and Carla has been the best decision l have made. My life is all coming together beautifully now as l continue to grow and learn. I am now investing again in myself with Carla for the next 12 months in her new Mentoring Container. I am beyond excited to see where l go to from here!
Kellie
Carla’s online coaching program and mentoring changed the trajectory of my life. Struggling to leave a toxic relationship and dealing with negative beliefs about myself, I was in a perpetual cycle of confusion, fear, and self- abandonment.
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Carla and her online program helped support and guide me back to trusting my intuition and self-love and to leave a karmic relationship. Carla also gave me the vision, strategies and confidence to kick start my new business that was waiting in the wings.
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Meeting Carla, she instantly possesses a real genuine compassion for the women she coaches, she listens intently and her approach to our sessions made reassured by her relatable, open, and honest advice.
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I was captivated and inspired reading Carla's books, I gained so much more wisdom and insight from this gorgeous QUEEN of a woman.
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Other therapists I’ve seen, never gave me the outcomes and real change that I achieved from working with Carla, I am now living and creating the present and future I want.
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I would recommend Carla to anyone struggling in relationships or self love.
Alicia
I can’t say enough good things about Carla. I found Carla through Instagram, she popped up in my feed a few months before my marriage ended. After my marriage broke down, I reached out and we had a few conversations.
From those very first conversations I completely trusted and felt safe in Carla's guidance, in the facts of the hows and whys my marriage hadn’t and wouldn’t work any longer.
Over following months during the untangling of two lives, I genuinely felt supported having Carla next to me. Though a few challenges I was able to pull myself out of what I told myself was “a black hole”, and “the trenches”. Having friends and family can be comforting however really the guidance of someone who had seen this before and has the answers, was so incredibly valuable and grounding -you don’t need people to tell you want you want to hear- you need people to tell you the how it actually is!
With Carla, I have worked on myself more over the past 12 months than in my entire life. I’ve built an entirely new positive vision for my life and unlearnt so many things that I had believed to be true about love, life and relationships.
I have invested in working with Carla 1:1, in the Rising Beyond Separation & Divorce Program and the Rediscovering You program, and read both her books.
While I’m still learning, working with Carla has taken years of time off my healing journey and I've now been able to confidently move into enjoying the next phase of my life. Thank-you so much Carla for helping me achieve all that I have and for being the exact thing I needed.
Who Is Carla Da Costa
Carla Da Costa is a published author on divorce and love, a certified divorce coach and transformational life coach. She has been working in the divorce space and works with men and women who are separating, divorced or who have been out of their marriages since 2017. Carla went through her own divorce in 2016.
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Carla has a deep understanding of the masculine and feminine healing and awakening journey that occurs during a marriage ending and moving on from it's ending process.
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Carla's work has a deep focus on supporting men into their conscious, masculine energy and women into their empowered, feminine energy - sometimes for the first real time in their lives. Her desire is to heal mistrust and misunderstanding between men and women and to see both sexes in their empowerment and strengths and in loving unions with another.
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She has a deep passion in the psychological, metaphysical and spiritual worlds while also having a deep grasp on the practicalities and legalities of a marriage ending and the navigation of exes, children and associated situations of money and businesses.​
Carla's coaching is both a combination of executive style coaching, mentorship and intuitively lead guidance. She has a profound ability to recognise pattern recognition, to be able to read you and your situation quickly and powerfully to bring you clarity, healing and resolvement.
On a personal level, Carla went through her own marriage ending and divorce in 2015 and 2016 and has coached 1000's of individuals through their own since. She could not do this work today if she had not moved through this experience and come fully out the other side herself.
Results To Expect When Working With Me
Empowered. Feminine. On point. Free.
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No longer feeling triggered, controlled, belittled or manipulated by partners or ex-partners.
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Support to navigate the legalities and practicalities of a marriage ending with the intention of both fairness and amicability front of mind.
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You in the drivers seat of your own life - you feel confident, you are in your feminine, you have purpose, excitement for the future and your potential, you have a vision for the woman you are becoming and a new self-identity you are stepping into.
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Excitement for the future. A sense of freedom and peace to be living true to you, as the woman you know you are and who you can be.
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A life and relationship that is a reflection of your self-worth and self-love. Not a reflection of your fears, traumas, low self-belief and confidence. The confidence to walk away from anything not healthy for you or meant for you any longer.
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Improved health, mental and emotional clarity. Improved finances and financial mindset. Deeper sexual intimacy and sensuality.
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Concrete results and change in your life, love relationships and careers. We are not attracting into our life a shade of the same anymore and our old 'type' or person is no longer attracted to us. Perfect!
A marriage ending is allowed to be one of the hardest, most challenging seasons we move through as adults. However, it also gets to be the life pivot point where everything improved for us personally into the future, where we never look back. It gets to be liberating and free'ing. It gets to be the life event that changed everything for us and for our family positively.
Be inspired by some of my past client's stories and experiences with me here.
What's Included & Pricing
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In depth pre-consultation questionnaire
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4 x 1 hr consultations with Carla via Zoom or if you prefer over the phone
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Forever access to Carla's 3 month signature online coaching method Rising Beyond Separation & Divorce (more details here) to support our coaching sessions and deepen your healing, awareness and results.
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Personalised support between sessions for the 3 month period via my private client app to keep you in forward, positive momentum. You can reach out to me daily for coaching and support between our sessions.
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Carla's recommended meditation and hypnotherapy sessions to release emotional ties to past lovers, heal wounds and traumas and to align ourselves with what we desire to attract into our life
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Pricing
Upfront Payment of $3,333
Three Monthly Payments of $1,139
Six Monthly Payments of $575
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Our time together will be a life-changing, pivot point in your personal journey.
However, if you feel you are not suited to my 1:1 coaching container, then please explore my masterclasses and programs here.
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