1:1 Private Coaching For Men

A highly tailored three month coaching container for the masculine who is either moving through the awakening and grief of a marriage coming to it's an end. Or for the masculine who is walking the healing path after a marriage has ended - he is redefining himself, relearning what love is and leaving the past hurts behind.

This container is designed to support a man into his power, his leadership and into his true, healthy masculine self.

Who Is This Coaching Container For?

This 3 month coaching program is for the masculine who is:

- Feeling grief, guilt, shame and perhaps even anger

- Mistrustful of the feminine

- Desires to feel freedom and has a belief that to be in a relationship is a 'loss' of their freedom

- Desiring to be in their masculine and in balance (leadership, drive, strength, purpose) and to break up with feeling emasculated (lost, purposeless, manipulated and put down by the feminine, people pleasing, withholding their truth)

- Wanting to be in relationship with a feminine woman who is empowered, soft and nurturing over attracting and pursuing one of two types of women. The first - women who are 'needy', emotionally reactive, wounded, who need saving financially and otherwise. Or second the woman who likes to be in control and wear the pants- it's her way or the highway and over time, nothing you do is good enough or right.

This container is suitable for you if you are still married, if you have separated recently or if you have been separated for a period of time but are still carrying the wounding, disappointment and hurt on the inside.

You Need To Know This...

Truth 1.

There are many women in their masculine energy in the world and many women projecting their wounds onto the masculine. And there are many men who are not in their masculine energy projecting their wounds onto the feminine. The imbalances that exist in the world today in relationships are as much a feminine issue as they are a masculine one.

The feminine is allowed to have their own perception on this AND the masculine is allowed to have their own perception on this.

Healthy unions come together from a place of understanding and growth from both.

Truth 2

The innate biology of the masculine to 'provide and protect' has been weaponised in today's society. This has left a lot of men falsely believing that they are doing the right thing by their wives and children by staying in a marriage that is unhealthy in it's dynamic and not love for the sake of everyone else but themselves.

This has left many men living with their balls in an energetic vice to keep the peace. Hiding behind behaviours that allow them to still feel a sense of masculinity or freedom. Chasing outside versions of success in life - big house, new cars etc. etc. And feeling deep inner conflict about leaving co-dependent wives and navigating children through a marriage ending because of this innate desire to 'provide and protect'.

Truth 3

There is toxic masculinity (aka masculinity marketed towards us in the 80's and 90's of the hyper male sporting, drinking culture and the behaviour accepted alongside this as masculine) and there is healthy, conscious masculinity that we are stepping into generationally now.

Everything culturally directed towards the masculine has been purposefully weaponised to take him out of his true masculinity and power and shift him instead towards being more in his ego, lust, weakness and chasing outside versions of success.

Everything culturally directed towards the feminine in that era was designed to make her co-dependent, wounded and seeking validation from the masculine.

There are women today who should have left their husbands years ago but they didn't out of fear, because they loved the house/lifestyle and the family they'd created with their partner - they don't want to be on their own providing for themselves and they don't want to be alone.

And there are men who also should have left their wives years ago too because they were no longer in love. It swings both ways. Welcome to the car crash, wounded cycle of first marriages which has enabled less than ideal behaviour in BOTH sexes that is my work here to help men and women heal and undo!

Truth 4

A successful relationship with a woman who is loving, supportive, in her feminine, who supports your life goals, while still having her own and who is attractive to you will require you to be a very different man than you were in your marriage- in behaviour, in mindset, in your patterning. This is a new version of masculinity and relationship.

There is no 'hook' of money or children or everything that has been built together to keep a couple together. Instead there is only love, connection, shared values and vision, emotional and sexual attraction, interdependence which allows for freedom to both be themselves instead of co-dependence.

Who Is Carla Da Costa

Carla Da Costa is a published author on divorce and love and a certified divorce coach. She has been working in the divorce space since 2016 and has recently opened her coaching books to work with men due to demand and to support men's mental health and evolvement through love.

Carla has a deep understanding of the masculine and feminine healing and awakening journey that occurs during a marriage ending and moving on from it's ending process.

Carla's work has a deep focus on supporting men into their conscious, masculine energy and women into their empowered, feminine energy - sometimes for the first real time in their lives. Her desire is to heal mistrust and misunderstanding between men and women and to see both sexes in their power and strengths and in loving unions with another.

She has a deep passion in the psychological, metaphysical and spiritual worlds while also having a deep grasp on the practicalities and legalities of a marriage ending and the navigation of exes, children and associated situations of money and businesses.

Carla's coaching is both a combination of executive style coaching, mentorship and intuitively lead guidance. She has a profound ability to be able to read you and your situation quickly and powerfully to bring you clarity, healing and resolvement.

Results To Expect When Working With Me

Greater passion, purpose and drive in your personal and professional worlds.

Improved health, vitality and well-being.

Understanding of what is true masculine and femininity as an individual and within relationship.

Deeper emotional and sexual connection with your partner.

No longer attracting or pursuing woundedness and co-dependency in women or enabling such dynamics in relationships.

Clarity and confidence around your decisions and path forward.

Healing and knowledge around the feminine.

Freedom. No longer feeling held back.

I do not celebrate 'time served' in a relationship with ignorance to the true dynamic and patterning of the couple within the relationship. These relationships do not bring out the best in the masculine or the feminine, nor do they bring out the best in society or our children.

I celebrate the depth of connection, love and healthy dynamic present in a relationship.

What's Included & Pricing

In depth pre-consultation questionnaire
4 x 1 hr consultations with Carla via Zoom or if you prefer over the phone
Personalised support between sessions for the 3 month period via my private client app to keep you in forward, positive momentum
A hypnotherapy library focused on your masculinity, healing and growth.

Sessions are spaced three weeks apart over our three month container together.

Pricing

Upfront Payment of $2,750

Three Monthly Payments of $960

Six Monthly Payments of $485

Our time together will be a life-changing, pivot point in your personal journey.

Uplevelling not just you but your love relationship and professional results for yourself.

It is imperative that you come to this container tired of living with the consequences of playing small and living in your old story and instead now desire real results and success in your life.

BOOK YOUR CONSULT TO ENQUIRE ABOUT WORKING WITH CARLA